Category Reference
Every category, every level, every modifier. Read through to understand the code, or just browse to see if you recognize yourself somewhere.
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Where these dimensions come from
The dimension coverage here was informed by the Autism Symptom Dimensions Questionnaire, an open-source research instrument. Eight of the current core dimensions were added to close gaps it identified — social connection, peer reciprocity, social context reading, nonverbal communication, pattern focus, systematizing, sensory seeking, and object interaction.
Frazier, T. W., Dimitropoulos, A., et al. (2023). The Autism Symptom Dimensions Questionnaire: Development and psychometric evaluation of a new, open-source measure of autism symptomatology. Developmental Medicine & Child Neurology, 65, 1081–1092.
Borrowing its dimension coverage is not the same as being it. The ASDQ is a validated informant-report screening instrument; the Spectrum Codex is a self-description vocabulary and is not validated, not diagnostic, and not a severity scale.
Universal Modifiers
These can be applied to any category.
This changes depending on the situation.
Shows your range. M++(---) means you usually mask heavily but sometimes don't at all.
Moving in a direction. M+++>- means heavy masker, working on unmasking.
Still figuring this one out.
This dimension is not your business.
Categories
Sensory
Ss Sensory: Sound #
How you relate to auditory input. This is about sensitivity and reactivity, not preference.
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- HypersensitiveI have left buildings because of sounds other people cannot hear. The fluorescent lights have a pitch. The refrigerator has opinions. I own stock in headphone companies.
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- Very sensitiveBackground noise in restaurants makes conversation nearly impossible. I need to recover after loud environments. I always know where the exits are - acoustically.
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- Somewhat sensitiveCertain sounds bother me more than seems reasonable. I notice things others filter out. Open-plan offices are not my friend.
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- NeutralSound is sound. I notice some things, miss others. This is not a defining dimension for me.
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- Somewhat unbotheredI can tune out most noise without much effort. Loud environments are fine. I occasionally miss someone calling my name.
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- Very unbotheredI can sleep through almost anything. People wonder how I concentrate with all this noise. What noise?
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- HyposensitiveI genuinely do not register most ambient sound. Fire alarms have surprised me. I am probably wearing headphones right now and forgot about it.
Sl Sensory: Light #
How you relate to visual input - brightness, flicker, patterns, visual clutter.
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- HypersensitiveSunglasses indoors is not an affectation. Fluorescent lighting is a hostage situation. I can see the 60Hz flicker and no one believes me.
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- Very sensitiveBright environments drain me fast. I have strong opinions about screen brightness settings. Overhead lighting is rarely acceptable.
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- Somewhat sensitiveI prefer dim environments and notice flicker that others don't. Big box stores are a lot.
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- NeutralLight is light. Not a major factor in my daily experience.
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- Somewhat unbotheredMost lighting conditions are fine. I don't think much about it.
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- Very unbotheredI can work under any lighting without noticing. People close the blinds and I wonder why.
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- HyposensitiveI sometimes forget to turn on lights when it gets dark. People visit my office and ask how I can see.
St Sensory: Touch #
How you relate to physical contact - being touched by people, pressure, proximity. Not about fabric or surfaces; that is texture.
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- HypersensitiveUnexpected touch from another person can ruin an hour. A hand on my shoulder from behind is a system crash. I flinch before I decide to flinch.
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- Very sensitiveLight touch is worse than firm pressure. Hugs require advance notice. I have a small list of people who are allowed to touch me without warning.
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- Somewhat sensitiveI have preferences about physical contact that seem strong to others. Handshakes are fine; casual arm-touching in conversation is not.
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- NeutralPhysical contact is not a significant part of my experience. Some touch is welcome, some isn't, but it doesn't drive decisions.
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- Somewhat unbotheredMost physical contact is fine. I don't think about it much. Hugs are neither sought nor avoided.
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- Very unbotheredI barely register casual touch. People bump into me on the bus and I forget about it instantly.
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- HyposensitiveI sometimes don't notice someone tapping my shoulder, or that the shower is scalding. My body's contact notifications are on silent.
Sx Sensory: Texture #
How you relate to surface textures and materials - clothing, fabrics, surfaces against your skin. Not about people touching you; that is touch.
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- HypersensitiveI have thrown away otherwise fine clothing because of a seam. Tags are an act of aggression. I own multiples of the one acceptable shirt.
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- Very sensitiveFabric matters enormously. I have a narrow range of acceptable textures. I can tell the thread count by touching a pillowcase. This is not a party trick.
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- Somewhat sensitiveSome textures bother me. I notice the material of a chair before I sit in it. I have returned clothing after discovering the fabric was wrong.
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- NeutralTexture is not a significant part of my experience. Some things feel nicer than others, but it doesn't drive decisions.
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- Somewhat unbotheredMost textures are fine. I don't think about fabric choices much. Clothing is chosen by other criteria.
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- Very unbotheredI barely notice textures. I'd wear sandpaper if it was the right color.
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- HyposensitiveI genuinely cannot tell the difference between cotton and polyester by feel. I sometimes don't notice I'm still wearing yesterday's socks. Fabric is fabric.
Sf Sensory: Food/Taste #
How you relate to food - texture, taste, variety, the whole complicated business of eating.
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- Very restrictedI have a short list of safe foods and it has not changed in years. Trying new food is not an adventure, it is a negotiation with my nervous system. Yes, I know what I'm missing. No, I cannot just try it.
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- Quite restrictedTexture is usually the issue. I can eat a wider range than some, but mixed textures are a problem and certain foods are simply not going to happen. I order the same thing at restaurants.
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- Somewhat selectiveI'm pickier than average and have some definite no-go foods, but I can navigate most menus. I probably won't eat your home cooking without warning, though.
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- NeutralFood is not a major axis for me. I eat a reasonably varied diet without much drama.
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- Fairly flexibleI'll try most things. Food is fuel and I don't think about it much. I might forget to eat entirely.
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- Very flexibleI will eat nearly anything put in front of me. I genuinely don't understand food aversions - which I recognize is its own kind of atypical.
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- IndifferentFood is a chore. I would take a nutritionally complete pill over cooking any day. I have eaten the same lunch for months without noticing.
So Sensory: Smell #
How you relate to olfactory input. Perfume counters: gateway or gauntlet?
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- HypersensitiveI can identify people by their laundry detergent. Perfume sections in stores are a biohazard. I have asked strangers to move because of their cologne.
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- Very sensitiveStrong smells can trigger headaches or nausea. I notice when someone three rooms away is microwaving fish. Scented candles are not a gift, they are a declaration of war.
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- Somewhat sensitiveI notice smells others miss and some bother me disproportionately. I have opinions about cleaning products.
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- NeutralSmell is not a significant dimension for me. Some things smell nice, some don't.
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- Somewhat unbotheredMost smells don't register much. People point out smells and I shrug.
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- Very unbotheredI regularly fail to notice strong odors. The milk could be off and I wouldn't know until I tasted it.
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- HyposensitiveMy sense of smell is essentially decorative. I have been near genuinely bad smells and not noticed until someone else reacted.
Pn Interoception #
Your ability to sense internal body states - hunger, thirst, pain, temperature, needing the bathroom. The sense nobody talks about.
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- High awarenessI notice subtle internal signals clearly. I know when I'm getting hungry before it's urgent. I can tell the difference between anxiety and excitement in my body.
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- Good awarenessI generally know what my body needs. Some signals are clearer than others but I'm tuned in.
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- Moderate awarenessSome body signals I catch, some I miss. I might not notice I'm thirsty until I'm very thirsty.
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- VariableMy interoceptive awareness comes and goes. Sometimes I'm attuned to my body, sometimes I forget I have one.
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- Reduced awarenessI regularly miss internal signals. "When did you last eat?" is a question I struggle to answer. Pain sometimes registers late.
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- Poor awarenessI frequently don't notice hunger, thirst, or temperature until it's extreme. I have gone an entire day without eating and only noticed when I got dizzy.
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- Very poor awarenessMy body sends emails and I don't check that inbox. I've been injured and not noticed. I rely on schedules and timers for basic needs because my body won't tell me.
Sp Sensory Seeking #
How much you actively pursue sensory experiences - not sensitivity (that's the per-sense categories), but the drive to seek sensation. Spinning in chairs, staring at moving water, smelling every candle in the store.
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- Intense seekerI chase sensory experiences constantly. Spinning, swinging, running my hands over textures, staring at patterns in water. My body wants more input, always. The world is a sensory buffet and I am not leaving until I have tried everything.
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- Active seekerI seek out sensory experiences regularly and noticeably. I have favorite textures I touch compulsively, sounds I play on repeat, visual patterns I could watch for hours. It is a need, not just a preference.
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- Somewhat seekingI have some sensory-seeking behavior - a fidget I always carry, a song I loop, a texture I gravitate to. More than a habit, less than a compulsion.
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- NeutralI am neither strongly seeking nor avoiding sensation. Some experiences are pleasant, some are unpleasant, but I do not organize my day around either.
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- Somewhat avoidantI tend to reduce sensory input rather than seek it. Quiet rooms, dim lights, minimal stimulation. Calm is the goal.
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- Actively avoidantI structure my environment to minimize sensation. Noise-canceling headphones, blackout curtains, predictable textures. Less input is better.
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- Strongly avoidantI avoid sensory input wherever possible. The ideal environment is quiet, dim, still, and predictable. Unexpected sensation is a threat, not an adventure.
Social
M Masking #
How much energy goes into performing neurotypicality. Not whether you can pass - whether you do, and at what cost.
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- Heavy maskerI have a full-time social persona that most people have never seen behind. The mask is good - so good that when I mention being autistic, people don't believe me. This is not the compliment they think it is.
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- Frequent maskerI mask in most social situations. I have a script for small talk, a practiced laugh, a calibrated amount of eye contact. Few people get the unmasked version.
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- Situational maskerI mask when I need to - work, new people, high-stakes situations. With trusted people, I let it drop. The switching itself is tiring.
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- MixedSome masking, some not. It depends on the day and the context. I'm still figuring out which parts are mask and which are me.
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- Mostly unmaskedI've dropped most of the mask, by choice or by burnout. People get the real version most of the time. Some of them wish they didn't.
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- Rarely masksI don't have much of a mask left. What you see is what you get. This is partly liberation and partly that I never had the energy for it.
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- Does not maskI have never successfully masked, or I stopped entirely a long time ago. My autism is visible and I have made my peace with that.
SE Social Energy #
The size of your social battery and how fast it drains. Not whether you like people - whether being around them costs energy.
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- Large batteryI can handle extended social situations without significant drain. I might even enjoy a party. (I know, I'm surprised too.)
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- Good capacityI can manage a full social day with some recovery time after. Work meetings are fine; work meetings plus dinner is pushing it.
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- Moderate capacityA few hours of socializing and I need to recharge. I budget social energy like a finite resource, because it is.
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- AverageSome social situations drain me, others don't. It depends heavily on the people and context.
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- Limited capacitySocial interaction is expensive. I need significant alone time to recover from even enjoyable social events. My calendar has recovery blocks.
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- Small batteryA single social event can use up my reserves for days. I have cancelled plans not because I didn't want to go, but because I couldn't afford to.
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- Very small batteryMost social interaction costs more than I have. A trip to the grocery store counts as socializing. I am not antisocial - I am energy-bankrupt.
Cn Connection / Emotional Intimacy #
How you connect emotionally with the people closest to you. Not whether you care - whether your caring is legible to others, and whether their emotional states are legible to you.
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- Deeply connectedI feel and express emotional closeness easily. When someone I love is hurting, I feel it in my body and know what to do about it. I have been called "too much" in the other direction.
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- Generally connectedEmotional intimacy comes fairly naturally with people I trust. I can read when close ones are struggling and respond in ways they recognize as comfort.
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- Somewhat connectedI connect, but it takes effort to make my caring visible. I sometimes realize after the fact that someone needed comfort and I missed the window.
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- MixedWith some people I connect deeply; with others I feel like I am behind glass. It depends on the person, the context, and how much energy I have.
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- Somewhat disconnectedI care about people but struggle to express it in ways they recognize. I've been told I seem cold by people I would do anything for.
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- Quite disconnectedEmotional intimacy is confusing and effortful. I love people but the connection feels like it's traveling through a bad translator. Hugging someone who is crying: I know I should, but the script after that is blank.
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- Very disconnectedEmotional connection with others is largely illegible to me in both directions. I don't always know when someone is upset, and when I do, I don't know what response they need. This is not the same as not caring.
Pr Peer Reciprocity #
Back-and-forth social exchange - the ping-pong of interaction. Not about wanting friends (you might want them desperately), but about the mechanics of reciprocal exchange.
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- Natural reciprocatorThe turn-taking of conversation and friendship comes easily. I match energy, volley topics back and forth, and know when it is my turn. This was never the hard part.
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- Generally reciprocalI can do the back-and-forth fairly well, especially with people I know. I sometimes catch myself monologuing and course-correct.
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- Somewhat reciprocalI manage the turn-taking, but it takes conscious effort. I've learned the rules of conversational ping-pong intellectually. The timing is slightly off.
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- MixedWith some people the rhythm works; with others I'm always half a beat off. My reciprocity depends heavily on topic and comfort level.
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- Somewhat one-sidedI tend toward monologue or silence - the middle ground is hard to find. I either info-dump or wait too long and the moment passes. Friendships have faded because I didn't know it was my turn to reach out.
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- Quite one-sidedReciprocal interaction is genuinely difficult. I want friends but the mechanics of maintaining friendship - the checking in, the matching energy, the unspoken scheduling - feel like a protocol I don't have documentation for.
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- Parallel over reciprocalI relate to people best through parallel activity, not exchange. Sitting in the same room doing our own things is my love language. The back-and-forth model of friendship mostly does not work for me.
Sc Social Context Reading #
Knowing what's expected in different social situations - the unwritten rulebook nobody gave you. Not whether you mask (that's M), but whether you even know what the 'right' behavior is before deciding whether to perform it.
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- Reads rooms naturallyI walk into a situation and immediately know the vibe, the norms, what is expected. I may choose not to comply, but I know the rules. This has always been intuitive.
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- Generally reads contextI pick up on most social contexts without much effort. Formal vs casual, when to be serious vs funny - I usually get it right.
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- Reads context with effortI can figure out social expectations if I pay attention, but it's not automatic. I've built a mental database of situation types and their rules.
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- MixedSome contexts I read fine; others blindside me. Work situations: usually fine. Parties: why is everyone acting differently than they do in meetings?
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- Often misreads contextI regularly misjudge what behavior is expected. I've been too formal in casual settings, too casual in formal ones, and told jokes at the wrong moments. I usually find out afterward.
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- Rarely reads contextSocial situations feel like arriving at a play where everyone else has a script. I don't know what this situation requires until someone tells me or I get it wrong. I've learned to watch others first and mirror.
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- Context-blindSocial contexts are essentially opaque to me. I treat every situation the same because I cannot reliably tell the difference. People say I'm inappropriate but won't explain what the right behavior was.
Communication
Cv Communication: Verbal #
Your facility with spoken language. Not intelligence - verbal output. Many brilliant people struggle to speak and many fluent speakers struggle to think.
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- Highly verbalI talk. A lot. Once I start on a topic I know, the challenge is stopping. I have been told I am "articulate" which is code for "we didn't expect you to be."
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- Verbally fluentSpeaking comes fairly naturally to me, especially about topics I care about. I can handle meetings and presentations without too much strain.
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- Capable but effortfulI can speak fine, but it takes more conscious effort than people realize. I often rehearse conversations beforehand. Spontaneous speech is harder.
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- Context-dependentSome situations I'm fluent, others I struggle. The gap between my best and worst verbal days is wider than most people's.
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- Limited verbalSpeaking is consistently effortful. I lose words, get stuck, say things out of order. Written communication is noticeably better.
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- Mostly non-speakingI speak when I have to, but it's unreliable. Under stress, speech goes first. I rely heavily on text, AAC, or other alternatives.
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- Non-speaking / selectiveSpeech is not my primary communication method and may not be available at all. This says nothing about what I think or understand.
Ct Communication: Text #
How much you prefer text-based communication over voice. Not about typing speed - about where you think most clearly.
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- Strongly prefers textIf you call me, I will stare at the phone until it stops ringing and then text you "what's up?" Text is where I am most myself. Do not leave me a voicemail.
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- Prefers textText over calls, always. I compose better in writing. I will send a detailed message rather than have a five-minute phone call.
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- Slight text preferenceI'd rather text for most things, but I can handle calls when needed. I just won't enjoy it.
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- No preferenceEither mode works. I switch between them without strong feelings.
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- Slight voice preferenceI'd rather just talk. Typing out long messages feels like overhead when I could say it in thirty seconds.
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- Prefers voiceI think best out loud and prefer real-time conversation. Text feels slow and ambiguous.
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- Strongly prefers voice/presenceText communication is frustrating and I avoid it. I need tone, pacing, the full human signal. Emoji do not compensate.
Cl Communication: Literal #
How literally you process language. Idioms, sarcasm, subtext, "reading between the lines" - how much of that lands automatically?
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- Very literalI process language at face value first, always. Sarcasm requires a beat to decode. "We should get together sometime" - ok, when? I have learned to pause before responding to check for subtext. I do not always find it.
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- Quite literalI miss implied meanings regularly. Idioms sometimes catch me off guard even when I know them. I prefer people say what they mean.
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- Somewhat literalI can read subtext but it takes effort. I occasionally take things literally that weren't meant that way. I prefer direct communication.
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- MixedSometimes I catch subtext, sometimes I miss it. Depends on context, topic, and how tired I am.
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- Reads subtext fairly wellI pick up on most implied meanings. I still prefer directness, but I can navigate indirect communication.
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- Good at subtextI read between the lines naturally. Sarcasm, irony, implication - these land without much delay.
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- Fluent in subtextI process implied meaning as easily as literal meaning. My autism shows up in other ways, not this one.
Cb Communication: Body Language #
How you use and read body language, gestures, eye contact, and facial expressions - the non-word parts of communication. Distinct from literal processing (Cl): you can be great at detecting sarcasm but terrible at eye contact.
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- Fluent nonverballyI gesture naturally, make comfortable eye contact, and read body language without thinking about it. People understand me before I finish the sentence.
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- Generally fluentBody language mostly works for me, both sending and receiving. I use gestures, make reasonable eye contact, and pick up on posture shifts.
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- Somewhat fluentI manage nonverbal communication but it's partly scripted. I've learned to nod at the right times and maintain eye contact for the right duration. The formula usually works.
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- MixedSome nonverbal channels work, others don't. I might gesture fine but struggle with eye contact, or read facial expressions but broadcast the wrong ones.
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- Somewhat limitedNonverbal communication is unreliable for me. My face doesn't always match my feelings. Eye contact is either too much or too little. I've been told my body language is 'hard to read.'
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- Quite limitedI don't gesture much, struggle with eye contact, and regularly miss body language cues from others. People think I'm uninterested when I'm actually fascinated. My face is apparently running its own program.
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- Nonverbal channels mostly closedBody language is essentially a foreign language I never acquired. I don't point, I don't gesture, eye contact feels like staring into the sun, and my facial expressions are either absent or on a delay. People rely on my words because my body isn't sending the memo.
Neurotype
SI Special Interests #
The intensity and pattern of your deep interests. Not hobbies - the thing that organizes your inner life.
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- All-consumingI have been deeply invested in the same topic for years. I can talk about it for hours without noticing. I have forgotten to eat because of it. It is not a hobby, it is a load-bearing wall of my identity.
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- Very intenseMy interests are deep and focused. I research obsessively, acquire everything related to them, and think about them when I should be thinking about other things.
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- Noticeable intensityI have interests that are clearly stronger than "hobbies." I know more about certain topics than is socially expected and sometimes have to stop myself from monologuing.
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- ModerateI have interests I care about, but they don't dominate my life. The line between "interest" and "special interest" is blurry for me.
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- MildI have things I like, but nothing that feels all-consuming. I sometimes wonder if I have special interests at all, or if they're just... interests.
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- DiffuseI'm a generalist. I dabble in many things but rarely go deep. My autism shows up elsewhere.
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- Not a featureIntense focused interests are not part of my autistic experience. I relate to other dimensions more.
R Routine/Structure #
How much you depend on predictability and structure. Not preference - need.
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- Needs strong routineIf my morning routine is disrupted, the rest of the day is compromised. I eat the same breakfast every day and it is not boring, it is correct. Surprises are not delightful, they are expensive.
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- Needs routineI function best with predictable structure. Changes to plans cause real distress, not just annoyance. I plan my weeks in detail.
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- Prefers routineI like knowing what's coming. Unexpected changes are manageable but cost energy. I have routines I didn't realize were routines until someone disrupted them.
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- ModerateI like some structure and some flexibility. Not a defining dimension.
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- Fairly flexibleI can adapt to changes without too much difficulty. I have some routines but I'm not dependent on them.
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- Very flexibleI actually get bored with too much routine. I can pivot plans easily. This surprises people when they learn I'm autistic.
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- Thrives on varietyStructure feels constraining. I work best with some chaos. Yes, I'm autistic. No, I don't need a schedule. The spectrum is wide.
EF Executive Function #
Your capacity for planning, initiating tasks, switching contexts, and managing time. The invisible infrastructure of getting things done.
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- Strong EFI am organized, self-directed, and good at planning. I can switch between tasks without losing my place. People ask me how I get so much done. (The secret is usually that it's a special interest.)
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- Good EFI generally manage tasks and time well, with some systems in place to help. I can plan ahead and follow through most of the time.
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- Adequate EFI manage, but it takes more scaffolding than people realize. Lists, reminders, routines - the infrastructure is there because without it, things fall apart.
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- Uneven EFSome executive functions work fine, others don't. I can plan but not start. I can start but not finish. The inconsistency is the consistent part.
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- Challenged EFTask initiation is a real problem. I know what I need to do. I can see it. I cannot make myself start. Time blindness is a frequent companion.
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- Significant EF challengesWithout external structure, very little gets done. Context-switching costs me half an hour minimum. I have systems for my systems and they still fail.
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- Severe EF challengesExecutive function is a daily barrier. Basic tasks like showering, eating on time, or responding to messages can require enormous effort. This is not laziness. This is a wiring difference.
Sm Stimming #
Self-stimulatory behavior - the movements, sounds, or sensory inputs you use to regulate. Everyone stims. This is about how much it's part of your daily life.
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- Frequent and visibleI stim openly and often. Hand-flapping, rocking, spinning, vocal stims - these are how I regulate and I am not interested in hiding them anymore.
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- RegularI stim throughout the day. Some stims are visible, some are subtle. I've learned which ones are "socially acceptable" and which ones get looks.
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- ModerateI stim noticeably but not constantly. Pen clicking, leg bouncing, fidget toys. Things that pass as "fidgeting" in neurotypical spaces.
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- SomeI stim sometimes, usually without thinking about it. It's part of my life but not a defining feature.
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- SubtleMy stims are small and mostly internal - tongue pressing, toe curling, mental patterns. You wouldn't notice unless I told you.
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- RareI don't stim much. Occasionally under stress. This is not necessarily healthy - it might mean I've suppressed them so long I've lost track.
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- Not a featureStimming is not a significant part of my experience. My regulatory mechanisms look different.
B Burnout/Energy #
Your overall energy capacity and resilience to autistic burnout - the deep, pervasive exhaustion that goes beyond being tired.
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- High capacityI have good energy reserves and recover quickly from demanding situations. Burnout is something I've read about but not experienced severely. (Yet. I know enough to add "yet.")
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- Good capacityI manage my energy well enough to avoid major burnout most of the time. I know my limits and respect them, usually.
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- AdequateI can maintain a normal-looking life but there's not much margin. A bad week can set me back for a while.
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- VariableMy energy capacity fluctuates a lot. Some periods I'm fine, others I'm running on fumes. The pattern is hard to predict.
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- LimitedI burn out faster than my life demands. I've had to reduce commitments. The gap between what I want to do and what I can do is constant.
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- Easily depletedMy capacity is significantly below what's expected. I've experienced major burnout episodes. Recovery takes months, not days.
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- Very low capacityI am in or recovering from severe burnout. Basic functioning takes everything I have. This is not a character flaw, it's a nervous system that has been running beyond its capacity for too long.
Pt Pattern / Detail Focus #
Whether you naturally zoom into details or zoom out to the big picture. The parts-vs-whole dimension. You notice the one tile that's different before you notice the floor.
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- Extreme detail focusI see the parts before the whole, always. I spot the typo on the billboard from the highway. I notice the one pixel that is off. I can describe every tree but sometimes miss the forest entirely.
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- Strong detail focusDetails jump out at me before patterns do. I am the person who spots continuity errors in movies and the misaligned tile in the bathroom. Summarizing is harder than analyzing.
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- Somewhat detail-focusedI tend to notice details others miss, but I can pull back to the big picture with effort. I proofread well. I sometimes get lost in the weeds.
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- BalancedI move between detail and big-picture depending on the task. Neither mode dominates. I can zoom in or out as needed.
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- Somewhat big-pictureI tend to see the overall pattern first and drill into details when needed. I am better at strategy than proofreading.
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- Strong big-pictureI see systems and patterns first, details second. I can miss obvious errors because I am looking at the shape of the thing, not the seams.
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- Extreme big-pictureDetails are noise; patterns are signal. I synthesize, I generalize, I see connections. The specific numbers on the spreadsheet are someone else's problem.
Sy Systematizing / Collecting #
The drive to organize, catalog, memorize, and build systems of knowledge. Not the same as special interests (SI is about intensity of focus); this is about the type of engagement - the taxonomizing, list-making, fact-collecting brain.
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- Compulsive systematizerI catalog everything. I have spreadsheets for things that do not require spreadsheets. I memorize facts the way other people breathe. I once organized my spice rack by Scoville units. My brain is a filing cabinet that files itself.
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- Strong systematizerI collect, categorize, and organize compulsively. I know the technical specifications of things I do not own. I make lists of my lists. My notes app is an encyclopedia.
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- Somewhat systematicI like to organize knowledge and notice when things are not categorized correctly. I have memorized more facts than seems normal. I enjoy a well-structured database.
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- ModerateI can be systematic when the task calls for it, but I do not seek it out. Some things I catalog, others I let exist in chaos.
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- Mildly unsystematicI resist over-organizing. Too much structure feels constraining. I know things but do not feel compelled to catalog them.
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- Resistant to systemsI actively dislike rigid categorization. The world is messy and I am fine with that. Spreadsheets make me feel claustrophobic.
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- Anti-systematicOrganizing, listing, and cataloging feels deeply unnatural and exhausting. My brain works in associations, not categories. File systems are suggestions.
Ob Object Interaction Patterns #
How you interact with physical objects - repetitive manipulation, fascination with mechanisms, preference for parts over wholes. The person who has to spin every fidget, open every latch, take apart every pen.
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- Strong object patternsI take things apart to understand them. I am fascinated by mechanisms, moving parts, the specific way a hinge works. I have disassembled things I could not reassemble. Objects are more interesting in pieces.
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- Noticeable object patternsI interact with objects in repetitive or unusual ways and people notice. I flip, spin, click, and fidget with everything in reach. I am drawn to the parts of things - the clasp, the gear, the button.
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- Some object patternsI have some repetitive interactions with objects that go beyond normal fidgeting. I might click a pen for twenty minutes without noticing, or be strangely fascinated by how a lock mechanism works.
- 0
- NeutralI use objects in typical ways. I might fidget occasionally but it is not a defining behavior. Objects are tools, not puzzles.
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- MinimalI do not interact with objects much beyond their intended purpose. Fidgets do nothing for me. I use the pen to write, not to click.
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- Low engagementI have little interest in objects beyond utility. I do not notice mechanisms or feel drawn to manipulate things. Physical objects are background.
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- Not a dimensionObject interaction patterns are simply not part of my experience. I do not take things apart, I do not fidget with mechanisms, I do not notice parts over wholes.
Sn Support Needs #
How much external support, accommodation, or help you need to navigate daily life. Not a judgment of capability - a practical description of what it actually takes. This is not "functioning." This is the gap between what the world demands and what your nervous system can deliver unaided.
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- Mostly independentI navigate daily life without much external support. I manage my own schedule, logistics, and living situation. The occasional rough patch, but the infrastructure holds. People sometimes forget I'm autistic, which means they also forget I might need help.
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- Independent with accommodationsI live independently, but with specific accommodations that are non-negotiable. Noise-cancelling headphones, a structured routine, the right living environment. Remove the accommodations and the independence unravels faster than people expect.
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- Some support neededI manage most things but certain areas consistently require help - maybe appointments, phone calls, navigating bureaucracy, remembering to eat. I have workarounds for my workarounds.
- 0
- Moderate supportI need regular support in several areas of daily life. Not constant, but more than "a bit of help here and there." The gap between what I can do on a good day and what I can sustain is the whole story.
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- Significant supportDaily life requires substantial help. I can do some things independently, but I rely on people or services for many basics. The world is not set up for how I operate and the accommodations are not optional extras.
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- High support needsI need extensive daily support across multiple areas - personal care, communication, navigating environments, managing tasks. Independence exists in specific domains, not as a general state.
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- Very high support needsI require comprehensive, ongoing support in most areas of daily life. This is not a limitation of will or intelligence. It is what my nervous system requires, and pretending otherwise helps no one.
AD ADHD Co-occurrence #
The autism-ADHD overlap is so common it nearly deserves its own category. If you're here, you probably know.
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- Strong ADHD traitsThe AuDHD experience in full. My brain wants routine AND novelty, structure AND chaos, hyperfocus AND distraction - simultaneously. It's a lot.
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- Significant ADHD traitsADHD is clearly part of my picture. Impulsivity and inattention coexist with autistic rigidity in ways that confuse everyone, including me.
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- Some ADHD traitsThere's overlap. I see myself in ADHD descriptions sometimes but it's not the dominant picture.
- 0
- UncertainI honestly can't tell where autism ends and ADHD might begin. The Venn diagram is a circle.
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- Minimal ADHD traitsI don't strongly identify with ADHD descriptions. My attention issues look more autistic than ADHD.
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- Few ADHD traitsADHD doesn't resonate with my experience. I'm pretty solidly in the autism-only camp.
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- No ADHD traitsThe ADHD descriptions do not apply to me. My neurotype is autism without the ADHD seasoning.
PD Demand Avoidance (PDA) #
Pathological Demand Avoidance — or Persistent Drive for Autonomy, depending who you ask. An autism profile where everyday demands trigger a threat response, even demands you placed on yourself. It's not laziness or defiance. Your nervous system treats 'you should' the same way most people's treats 'you're in danger.'
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- Strong PDA profileDemands of any kind — external, internal, even fun plans I made myself — can trigger intense avoidance. My brain treats 'have to' as a threat. I use every strategy I have: distraction, negotiation, shutdown, role-play, humor. This is not a choice. It is my nervous system's full-time job.
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- Significant demand avoidanceDemand avoidance is a major part of my daily experience. Routine tasks can feel impossible not because I can't do them but because they've become demands. I need autonomy and collaboration, not instructions. Traditional autism supports like rigid structure can make things worse, not better.
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- Some demand avoidanceI recognize the PDA pattern in myself sometimes. Certain demands trigger disproportionate resistance — especially imposed routines or expectations I didn't choose. I can usually push through, but it costs more than people realize.
- 0
- Uncertain / exploringI'm not sure if what I experience is PDA or general autistic demand resistance or burnout or executive dysfunction or all of the above. The boundaries between these things are not as clean as the labels suggest.
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- Mild demand sensitivityI can be demand-avoidant under stress, but it's not a pervasive pattern. I generally manage expectations and obligations without my nervous system staging a full revolt.
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- Minimal demand avoidanceDemand avoidance isn't a significant part of my experience. I might resist things I don't want to do — who doesn't — but it's not the visceral, autonomic shutdown that PDA describes.
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- Not demand avoidantPDA doesn't resonate with me. I'm generally comfortable with structure, expectations, and routine demands. If anything, I prefer being told what to do — it reduces uncertainty.
RS Rejection Sensitivity (RSD) #
Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria — the experience of extreme emotional pain from real or perceived rejection, criticism, or failure. Not officially in the DSM, but ask any room of autistic or ADHD adults and watch everyone nod. The pain is real, it's neurological, and it's not something you can just 'get over.'
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- Intense RSDPerceived rejection hits like a physical blow. A friend's tone shift, an unanswered message, a piece of critical feedback — any of these can send me into a spiral of shame and pain that is wildly disproportionate to the actual event. I know this intellectually. It does not help in the moment.
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- Strong rejection sensitivityRejection sensitivity significantly shapes my behavior. I may avoid putting myself out there, over-apologize, people-please compulsively, or withdraw preemptively to avoid the pain of possible rejection. It's exhausting to care this much about what everyone thinks.
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- Moderate rejection sensitivityI'm more sensitive to rejection than average. Criticism stings longer than it should, and I sometimes read rejection into neutral situations. I've developed coping strategies, but the underlying sensitivity is always there.
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- Variable / uncertainSome days rejection rolls off me; other days a slightly off-tone email ruins my week. I can't tell if this is RSD, anxiety, trauma response, or just being human. Probably some combination.
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- Mild sensitivityRejection is unpleasant but manageable. I don't enjoy criticism — nobody does — but it doesn't typically trigger an intense emotional or physical pain response.
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- Low rejection sensitivityI'm fairly resilient to criticism and rejection. I can usually separate feedback about my work from feelings about my worth. This isn't something I struggle with significantly.
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- Rejection-resilientRejection doesn't particularly affect me. I can take criticism, handle social uncertainty, and move on without significant emotional fallout. This may be its own kind of neurodivergent trait, honestly.
Identity & Context
Dx Diagnosis Path #
How you came to know you're autistic. Every path is valid. The destination is the same.
- :f
- Formally diagnosedReceived a clinical diagnosis through professional evaluation.
- :s
- Self-identifiedRecognized your autism through research, community, or lived experience. Not everyone has access to (or needs) a formal assessment.
- :p
- Pursuing diagnosisIn the process of seeking formal evaluation. Waitlists are a special interest nobody asked for.
- :l
- Late diagnosedIdentified as autistic in adulthood. The "oh, that explains... everything" experience.
- :c
- Childhood diagnosisIdentified early. Grew up knowing, for better or worse.
- :r
- Re-diagnosedPreviously carried a different label - Asperger's, PDD-NOS, "gifted," "difficult," "just shy." The taxonomy changed; you didn't.
- :?
- QuestioningStill figuring it out. That's fine. Take your time.
SM Dysregulation Style #
What happens when your system is overwhelmed. Not a choice - a pattern.
- :s
- ShutdownWhen overwhelmed, you go inward. Speech stops, movement slows, the world gets far away. You look calm from the outside. You are not calm.
- :m
- MeltdownWhen overwhelmed, it comes out. Tears, anger, stimming intensifies, sensory overload peaks. It is not a tantrum. It is a nervous system that has exceeded capacity.
- :b
- BothYou experience shutdowns and meltdowns, sometimes in sequence. The fun combo platter.
- :i
- InternalizerYour dysregulation is invisible to others. You look fine. You are managing a five-alarm fire internally.
- :e
- ExternalizerYour dysregulation is visible. People can tell when you're overwhelmed. This is sometimes easier (people accommodate) and sometimes harder (people judge).
CI Community Identity #
How you relate to autistic identity and community. Language and belonging are personal.
- :a
- Identity-firstI say "autistic person." Autism is part of who I am, not something I "have." Like being left-handed, not like having a cold.
- :p
- Person-firstI say "person with autism." I am more than my diagnosis. Both framings are valid.
- :n
- Not community-identifiedI don't particularly identify with the autistic community. It's part of my neurology, not my social identity.
- :v
- Active advocateI am actively involved in autistic advocacy, community building, or education.
Ag Age at Self-Recognition #
The age you first thought "wait... am I autistic?" Not diagnosis - recognition. Use a number.
- :<10
- ChildhoodYou knew early, even if the adults didn't.
- :10s
- TeensAdolescence brought the realization, along with everything else.
- :20s
- TwentiesYoung adulthood. Often after leaving home revealed patterns.
- :30s
- ThirtiesA common window. Often triggered by burnout, parenthood, or a child's diagnosis.
- :40s
- FortiesMidlife reckoning. All those years suddenly reframe.
- :50+
- Fifty or laterA lifetime of wondering, finally answered.
That is the whole vocabulary. You do not have to use all of it — pick the dimensions that actually say something about you and leave the rest out.
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